Tuesday, April 1, 2008

From Ate Jedyl :)

“ I don’t want you to court me!” (said with a snarl)

or

"I think it would be better if we would just be friends."


WHAT EXACTLY IS THE BEST WAY TO STOP A GUY FROM COURTING A LADY?


In a woman's life, it is inevitable that she has to prohibit someone from pursuing her. The reasons vary from one situation to another but the fact remains. She wants him to stop courting her and she really means it. However, in the want to bar him from doing so, she wants to be cautious so as not to hurt him. After all, he is a nice guy, just not the guy for her.

PROBLEM NO. 1
When she is gentle in stopping him, he tells her that he understands. At least at the moment of the conversation. Because a day after, he is all back to wooing her as if nothing happened! No matter how many times she tells him to stop, he just never does! This is no longer appealing to her. In fact it is becoming very annoying.

PROBLEM NO. 2
When she tries to be mean towards him, he becomes silent. He says sorry and says he understands. Then he starts to haunt her conscience, as if she had been such an evil person and he had been so desperate and so poor. Human as the woman is, she does get affected.

So how exactly should she tell him to stop making all the efforts? Somebody help her!


*** And they say women are so shrewd! Hmph!

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